The Desire of Getting Married

As human beings, we have many tendencies. And one of them is to get married when we grow up. Surprisingly, this general common desire fluctuates from one individual to another. The reason of this fluctuation comes from everyone perception. Perception is the belief that is leading one’s life. The intention behind the common desire differs from one to another. So as everyone has different perception, as the intention differs.

But in reality, there must be only one single intention behind the common desire to get married. Naturally, the common sense in the marriage is to bring two to become one. In the sight of the creator of marriage, two must become one to be perfectly completed. 

Because, humans being were created with two principles such as: male principle and female principle. These principles are embedded in everyone regardless his gender. It’s like in every mind there are conscious mind and subconscious mind. If the conscious mind is the male principle, then the subconscious mind is the female.

They both must become one in mind for the mind to be perfect. The male principle and the female principle in everyone must become one for the individual to be perfect in balance. Without this union, there always will be a conflict within the individual. The perfect way of creating this union within human is to institute marriage. Why?

The marriage between male and female give birth to a child and the child is your consciousness.  It is through this consciousness your life will enfold. In man, his male principle is dominant than the female principle. And for the woman, her female principle is dominant. The perfect balance is to bring the male principle and the female principle on the same level of consciousness. Meaning before you get married, the perfect union must be accomplished within yourself before it manifests outside.

Therefore, for man to marry woman is to create the perfect balance within each other. What we behold outside ourselves raise our level of consciousness. Woman awakes the female principle in man when they are together sharing the same consciousness of life; and vice versa. The man that is contemplating or observing the true self of his wife, will be awaken in him his female principle that will create a perfect harmony between them.

We are getting married for the sole purpose to help each other to be perfect in the expressing of life. The person that has this understanding does not run away from the marriage if something happened. For the person knows that before the perfection must be established, the imperfection must to be dealt with. By dealing with the imperfection, we are establishing the perfection.

Any man in this type of consciousness understands his wife, and he always finds himself in perfect bound with his wife. The couple will realize that they are complete in each other. They will not fight for personal gain or personal victory but rather they seek the evolution of both of them. They understand that instead of blaming each other, they rather seek the solutions that help their expressing of love more meaningful.

If human being is created in the image and the likeness of his creator, then man or woman must come to the perfect conscious of their male and female principle and live their life according to their nature. And one of the best ways to live this life is in marriage. But we fail to see this happening because of different environment we were brought from.

Many people are getting into marriage with the sole desire that their wife or husband has to give them happiness. How this could be? How is it possible that I will give my whole life to somebody to play with? Many through their living environment have a list of things they are expecting to see in their spouse. But how this can happen if we are not brought forth from the same living environment?

For instance, if from my environment, marriage means suffering and pain based on my experience. But yours could be joy and happiness? In this case how can we said the same thing when we talk about marriage? Even though we are using the same word to accomplish the same desire but the meaning and the intention behind it are different. My conception is different than yours. Let me explain this through this illustration.  

Imagine two children: William and Jackie born in the same house. They have same father and the same mother. Their house represents for them their first influential environment then school, jobs etc. Environment is the composition of people, events, time, condition and space.

Now when they are growing up, and they are witnessing different characters and behaviors from their parents, they will eventually imitate these characters and behaviors. What will happen is that these children will manifest these characters and behaviors in their own daily life.

In this type of environment, imagine their father has a very good job and he provides well for the family. And their mother on the other hand, has job that paid less but still is responsible as their father. The situation seems to be lovable, but their father has a bad temper. His anger can turn to violence if nothing is done to cool him off. He gets angry easily, and yells at his wife anytime any moment when a little thing happened. Sometimes the stress can be unlivable.

His anger can cause him to throw things across the room and swear at his wife. His favorite word to justify his action to the children is: “your mother is sometimes difficult to live with. She is always like that. I really don’t understand women. They are complicate and get into your nerves for they don’t understand life. I am doing my best for this house, but for her it’s never enough”.

Later on, their mother who does not like to raise voice will talk to the children in sense of erasing what happened from their mind and explain how good their father is. But the problem is, herself was hurt and in the subconscious level she is seeking justice.  Whatever she will tell the kids will not be authentic. And also the subconscious mind of the kids recorded already the event and stored up as belief in them.  

At that moment If for Jackie, her mother attitude suits her own inclination; she will develop a strong connection with her mother. Even though she loves her father, her attitude towards him will be mixed with fear. But she will love more deeply her mother than the father. She will develop an attachment to her mother. In her behaviors, you can read the sign that she will act as she understands more her mother than her brother.

 That’s how some people build close relationship in the family. For William, if he is inclined to his father attitude, then he will develop also the same attitude as her sister towards his father. Two children in the same family are developing different beliefs for their entire life. For Jackie, men are arrogant and violent, even if they can provide for their family.

Beside the daily living situation that is influencing them, the things that happened before they were born will also be a part of the influential element of these children’s future life. What I mean is anything that happened to a pregnant woman, affect the unborn baby. Any trouble a woman will go through while carry a baby affect this baby instantly.

For instance, when man abandon his pregnant wife or girlfriend, any feelings the pregnant woman will develop, will affect highly the life of the baby. If she hates her husband or boyfriend attitude, later on, the baby will also do the same as her mother. All the emotion distress the pregnant woman goes through will affect instantly the unborn baby’s life.

That’s why you will notice some children hate their father or mother for no apparent reason. The cause of this hatred was when they were in their mother’s womb. That’s how children are affected and hypnotized by their parent behaviors while they were not born yet.

Now for William: “women are complicate, they don’t understand life, and they can get easily into your nerves. You have to protect yourself against their actions. As much you can give to them, they want more. They are never satisfied. You just have to love them and because you need them”.  

Now, what is happening here is that these children have been hypnotized by their living environment. None of them will grow up with pure and genuine attitude or behaviors. They will develop different personalities base on this hypnotize.

Their true nature was buried under these personalities. At this moment they already have what I call emotional wound. Anytime these children will remember their home, the images of their parent will also rise in their mind with all the data and emotions recorded. Their life choices will never be authentic.

Emotional pain in the body is one of the most suffering of humans in the face of the earth. Medicament will calm down the pain, but will never cure the disease. To cure this type of wound, many people use therapist for many years. Event after those years of therapy, the pain is never gone completely. Anything at any giving moment can revive the pain. This has to tell us how profound and serious emotional wound affect the life of human being.

William and Jackie attachment to their parents is different from one another. Honestly, they are not doing anything wrong. Furthermore, anytime Jackie will witness any woman treat by another man as nothing, she will experience a sort of revolt emotion within herself. She will feel as though she is the one the man is treating badly. The image of her mother and father will cross her mind.

William will avoid any woman with strong personality. Any lady that will be the opposite of his mother will never be his type. William will especially avoid ladies that have tendency to display self confidence. Independent or liberated women will not be a part of his dating experience. William is looking unconsciously for someone he can dominate as his mother was.

When you hear many people commonly said: “this person is not my type”. The question is, with what measure they are using? What kind of images in they are using if not the one their environment has created in them?  they have a list of things collected from their hypnotizing environment to compare with.

As for Jackie, she will avoid arrogant man in her relationship. But the problem is by trying to avoid someone who is looking like her father, she will eventually marry her father in the person she will say yes to. For the fact that what you fear the most is what you attract.  

As you can see, William and Jackie are living their parent’s life. They are not free in their choices. The environment has taken away from them their innocence. As long this hypnotism will remain, their life experiences are jeopardized. There will be nothing new in their daily life under the sun.

Through this illustration, we have come to the understanding that we are getting married with somebody we really don’t know. Your companion can be under different influences. A family environment, school or jobs influences. The real person is under hypnotism.

 Is there any way to get out of this problem? Yes there is a solution for everything. The problem can be solved if you recognize your own state of mind. How do you do that? You do it by seeking to know the right meaning of all things. You get the right meaning of things by asking question with an intention to know.

Take the responsibility to restructure your own life. Put into denial all that you have known about marriage, about life. Seek to know the reality of marriage. Check your own motive, your own desire of doing things. Do you really want to get out of this hypnotism?  Because you don’t want to play the old drama which script does not fit your time. But you want to play a new scene of life with the original script in which you are the main actors.

If yes, then you must check all your desires, your motive, and your intention behind every action. Find out what is the motive or the intention behind every desire of your heart. What is driven you? What is your belief about marriage? Why do you want to get married? What is the purpose of marriage?

Honestly speaking, the integrity and the honesty of your answer will always determine the circumstances of your life. No need to fool yourself. All this comes to one single thing. Even though it’s simple, but it requires the willingness of the heart. How far do you really, really love yourself? You don’t love yourself for anybody else. The more you love yourself, the more you discover who you really are.

The only time we discover ourselves is when we sit down with ourselves. You can do all, but if you fail to sit with yourself, then you will never know who you really are. We don’t have to fake things. We need to have a time for ourselves to think over on our life. Take time to contemplate your own life. Do it for yourself.

The same way we have the habit to go to doctor for checkup, is the same thing we have to do with ourselves. Your life will never change unless you ponder on it and change what need to be changed. We check our car to see if everything is okay; why not do the same thing with ourselves?

The amazing thing is, the moment you start asking yourself these questions; your heart is seeking the truth to be free from the hypnotism.  The honesty of you heart seeking to know the truth will lead you to the truth. When the student is ready, the teacher appears we commonly said. Until you find the truth, the illusion that invaded your heart remains. At the presence of the truth hypnotism dissolves.

We are not supposed to marry the image in our mind. Marriage is not an imagination. It is a real living thing that we must know and live for. We are not getting married because the person is good looking or he/she is wealthy etc. what will happen if there is no more wealth to stand on? What happen if the rankles of the age is appearing? Marriage is real. Do we ask ourselves where the idea of marriage comes from?

The person you meet today has his/her own beliefs. Anytime two people are getting together, it is two beliefs system that are meeting. The one that is weak will be under the strong one until it finds the way to be expressed. But where there is truth, no other belief can penetrate your mind.

The truth becomes the guardian of your mind. This mind is a free mind. For instance if one mind of a relationship is free from hypnotism, that mind shines on the other mind to be set free from the bondage. The rapport of two free minds in relationship is not the rapport of husband and wife but of friendship.

The image we have in mind can fade away or be distorted by events or situations. But the person you choose is real, a living being who accept to walk on the path of life with you. Love yourself by being real to one another, and then marriage will reveal itself to you.  

The Effectiveness of the Truth in our Mind.

Part 2

Hold on to the Truth in your Mind

Sometimes, it’s very hard for human being to see exactly the state of his mind. But without any good assessment, it will be wrong to just start doing anything to reshape the mind. Why do we have to reshape our mind? Well, the troubles in our societies demonstrated that something is wrong. Assessment is very important for everyone regardless of his level of perception.

Why is it important to assess oneself? Through personal assessment, one will come to know not only the qualities, but also all the strong weakest tendencies of his mind. And then you will be able to take the right decision and use the appropriate technology to transcend all those tendencies and reinforce the qualities.

Personal examination is the most things many people are trying to avoid because they will find things about themselves they are not ready or willing to know. They will come to understand how much they never live their life for themselves. They will see how their choices, judgments and behaviors were never been authentic.

Their living environment has impacted their mind to function according to a certain design. Most of environment designs are the cause of human’s trouble. And we all know deep within ourselves that something is not quite right. But most of the time we cover that emotion with something else. We mostly lie to ourselves.

Nevertheless, many are still seeking the freedom of their mind through different ways. But the problem is, they don’t know how to use the tools in their disposition to clear their mind. What am I calling tools? Just to look at how the nature functions should awaken in our consciousness the same order of functional embedded in all created thing.  

Many are carrying a heavy burden upon their mind and they can crack down any moment. The stress nowadays is getting into many heavily. And we have to spend a lot of money, time, and energy to distress ourselves. We are spending a lot in drugs and other medicines just to find some reliefs.

The level of stress in workplaces is getting higher and higher. Even though we spending a lot of resources, but we are still under control of stress and depression. In this situation, how our productivities can cover our need? The problem is individual before to become collective. If every person can take on himself to clear his mind, our society could advance way better than this.

One really clear person (mind completely renewed) will really impact his/her family, friends and the community. Drugs and medicament will cool down the pain in the body but they will never cure the problem of the mind. I am not telling you to stop your drugs, but my point is that mind is not the brain. Drugs affect our brain not our mind.

There are no drugs to affect the mind. As the soul is for the body, so the mind is for the brain. Regardless the evolution of science, there is no drug to cure human soul. The condition of the mind affects the brain. Not the brain affects the mind. When your mind is polluted, it will affect your brain and this later will not function very well.

If for instance, simple word can impact our gland lachrymose to produce tears when we’ve been insulted or we are humiliated, that mean word has powerful impact on human’s body. An experiment has demonstrated how words can affect not only plants but also frozen water. This has let us alerted that words are primal in human evolution. The question is what type of words can help the humanity?

Our mind was created by God through His word. And only it is through His word we can find the right solution for the problem of the mind. As I said it before, some have the tools but don’t know how to use it. How can we use truth to clean our mind? This is very simple.

God is the creator of all things. Everything was created by His word and the word is truth. His words are spirit and life. Meaning what comes out God has His intelligence and His life force. We have to use the same substance to clean and cure our mind. And to do that, we have to acknowledge that truth has all the abilities, all the power to do everything and believe it.

 It is possible to hold in our mind the thing we believed. By trusting the truth and hold on to it, will help us clean our mind. How do you hold on to the truth? The truth goes into your mind as light in the mind. When it goes into your mind, use it as discernment tool on every type of information comes to you. How do you use the truth as discernment tool? By examine the truth to fully know it.

For example, let said you have heard from church or from somewhere there universal law that said: “what you sow is what you will reap”. This universal law is God’s law. Can you change it to fit you own desire? No, then what do you do in this case? When something cannot be changed for personal interest, it is better to understand so that you can adjust yourself to it.

“What you sow is what you will reap” will never change for personal gain. It is universal law. Now what you do is to understand this law. Examine the law with an intention to know. Some questions are keys in this matter. To sow, you need seed. So what is the seed? Where is the ground? Who is the farmer? What is the rain? Is there any season? How is the process of germination? Does it require the quality of the seed and the ground?

For instance, a farmer knows that when you plant a good seed on the good ground in the right season, the harvest is astonished. Do you plant one seed and reap only one fruit, or you plant one seed and reap plenty of fruit. To simple do this, will allow you to understand this law and practice it in your life. Without understanding, you cannot apply it.

The practice of this law will make you not become like a toy in the hands life circumstances. Anytime you are about to say something, you will think twice of what to say and how to say it. You will probably start be conscious of the type of ideas that are flowing through your mind. Because what you think about yourself and others in your mind, your words and your actions are seeds and the universe is the ground.

The single law of sowing and reaping is helping you to adjust yourself into the universal principle. Any information that will come to you will be assessed by the truth of the law you study. Consequently, you will be cautious on the things you are relating to. Your knowledge will increase and your consciousness will expand far beyond the limit that was previously established in your mind.

Your understanding of the law of sowing and reaping becomes the gate keeper of your mind to protect it against anything that in not in the essence of this law. Also not only your mind will start filtering all the incoming information, but it will also clean all wrong existing beliefs. We are sick, stress out, confuse and all kind of trouble because our mind has accumulated many false information.

Anybody who practices the kind of examination with an intention of knowing something will always be on top of situations. Instead of being controlled by problem and worries, he/she will have dominion on the things.  We were created to live in harmony with all things not to be in disaccord and in suffering.

The person that is seeking with genuine intention to know the real nature of things is always met in the half way by the truth. Such person becomes aware of how the universe functions and knows how to relate to it. Truth in the mind is candle light in dark room where air is blowing. It is your duty to keep the light of truth on through your trust in the truth. 

The Effectiveness of the Truth in our Mind

Part 1

What kind of design is working in you?

One of the first desires every person tend to express in all the ways of life is to have the freedom of mind. Whatever may be your social status, this desire is common to everyone. Without the freedom of mind it will be impossible to talk about the evolution of mankind. For the mind to express its authenticity and inner creativity, it must be free from all the clutters.

The productivity of the mind that is free cannot be compare to the mind that is clutter. A clutter mind is the mind that lost its own identity. Such mind does not dwell in its essence. Whatever this mind will produce will not be authentic. In our societies today, many people believe that they have the freedom of mind, but in reality they have not.

For some, based on their job or social position, have the impression to be a free person. But in reality they are not. Just to see the irrational behaviors of our societies today, confirmed that we must do something for the betterment of mankind.

A mind that lost its own essence becomes a program machine to act according to the world design established in it. And many people are functioning with the design of their environment. You may not know it; most humans become the product of their living environments. Most of these products don’t know what is called authenticity.

However, some are striving to get in touch with the truth. Somehow, they believed that something is wrong and know that only the truth can set them free. But the questions to ask are:

• Do we know what the truth is?  
• Do we really trust the truth?

As long as we will still in the ignorance of the truth, nothing will ever happen. Your ignorance of the truth may cause you to put aside without any attention whatever truth you may find in your living journey. The very simple way to define truth is that, whatever comes out of the creator: God is truth. Truth is the essence of the whole creation.

To trust and to believe in the truth is to perceive the truth as the healing, renewing, resurrecting setting free etc. power. It is the ability of your mind to recognize the endless capability of the truth to do all. What you perceive in the truth is the only thing you can express. Before your eye is open to have such perception, is because you have clear from your own mind any doubt. Where there is no doubt, then faith arise to put into practice what you have received.

To not have doubt in your mind about truth is because you have doubt the things you already know. You started not believing anymore as blind person the former things. Meaning, you are really seeking a new thing to reinvigorate your life. What I’m saying here is not to judge you but to open your eye so that you may see and be transformed.

How can you recognize ibuprofen as pain killer for instance and use it for your pain if nobody ever explained to you the ability of it? You may have and put aside with no attention ibuprofen while you are suffering.  It is the same way, humans did not consider or do not pay attention to the truth they have received to be free. Because of that, human’s life nowadays is full of pain.

A society that is suffering cannot produce effectively and cannot even use it resources efficiently. No one desire to live in pain, but we are in pain because we refuse sometimes to pay attention or seek with an intention to know the truth. Most of the things we do are for personal glories which lead us astray.

For the simple fact that they have no ideas what ibuprofen is, they are still suffering. This lack of knowledge caused you to pay the price you should not; the price of suffering. Many are suffering and crying for help today, the problem is, they have the truth with them and do not want to practice it. They want a “magic-solution”.

I call “magic-solution” anything that will help them finds some reliefs in the moment without going through the process of curing the problem. Let me explain this well. Imaging that you have a cancer and your doctor told you that surgery will be good this time. Through the surgery, the cancerous cells will be removed and there will be no more cancer in your blood.

But here you are telling the doctor that you don’t like surgery and to give you anything that take the pain off for now. Because there is lack of authenticity in your mind; therefor you have no clue about what you are saying. As matter of fact, you are insane. This lack of authenticity made you to not love yourself as you should do. In this matter how can you love someone else completely free of interest?

We are crying every single day for help and when it comes, we throw it away. We all know for sure how vital we need the truth to be set free. We all knew that something must change for our life to be better. But we are so cut up in judgmental struggles that we do not pay attention to anything anymore.

The universe that we are living is bringing into our attention every single moment the keys to live according to the design of the creator of life. But we are constantly closing ourselves to these keys. We refuse to accept the truth. We rather prefer to use other design that is full of corruption.  

Those who finally open up themselves a little bit to the truth don’t use it as much as they can. For the sole mistake is that they are not seeking with attention and an intention to know and be free. All they doing, is just to be conform to the society. Even though they do have certain truths, they still living with the program designed for them. 

Why Not Trust?

Life seems to be more pleasurable for some and painful for others. While these two categories of humans are living on the same planet, they have different realities. One of the realities is the opposite of the other. Those that life is pleasurable are living everyday’s life with courage, love and peace.

Meanwhile, the other category of humans is facing the same life with anger and resentment. Their daily living becomes a struggle they must go through. The little joy of a moment could be turned into pain in a few. Why this difference of life living? Are we not under the same sun?

Who shall I blame for the painful circumstances of my life? Who is responsible to make things to turn around to become good? Sometimes, it does not matter how hard one tries to live differently. The situations don’t change overnight as we always expected them to be. The ultimate question is:

Am I condemned to live such painful life for the rest of my days?

No, I do not believe such thing; for I’ve seen in my own society how things can change. I’ve witnessed the so called nothing to become something and vice versa.  Around me a poor became rich and rich became poor. If things can change then the problem is with me; not anybody else. But how could I find the right answer to my question if I don’t believed in myself?

Who is able to invest in me if I lack to trust myself?

As long as I can remember, I’ve learned to not trust myself. I’ve come to believe through many circumstances of life that I’m not able to take any right decision. Anything that I do, people judged it “stupid” or “wrong”.  My world is made of the terms such as: pain, stupid, wrong, nothing etc.

Whatever is right for me, will become wrong for others. What I called white is actually black for others. That’s why I strongly believed that I’m not good at all. And also, my own family taught me that I’m not good at all.

I will become like rock in my mind if someone is trying to make me see what I was missing. We all know how water does not penetrate rock. If I consider water as the things that I am in need to know. So the new idea will not penetrate what I already established in my mind.

But in my quest to change, I came to not trust what I believed that I know. I stopped trusting the things that I believed that I know. For instance, I don’t believe that I am nothing anymore. As long as the sun will rise in the morning, I will not sit down and blame anyone for my misfortune.

How come things can go well for others and not for me? If everyone received the same education as me, then we should have the same situations. How the flowers can be so beautiful, but me as human that has more abilities will sit quietly believe that I am nothing?

If rain can fall for all, then my life is like the rain that is falling. It depends on what I do with the water or my life. If I throw the water away, then it is my own responsibility. If I take care of the water, then the water will be saved for better use.

Then I started looking around me. Checking how thing works. I became an observer of life. As I was observing life and withdrawing it substance, I did not notice that my own life was changing. Before I knew it, things start turning around. The way all the situations used to hurt me before start changing.

A kind of boldness rise up in me that I know for sure was not there before. Not only this boldness, the fear of living also disappeared from my consciousness. People that are not able to stand beside me were coming back to converse with me. Not because I became an important person, but because my way of view things has changed.

I realized one thing so great that astonished me a lot. Life is a mirror. The way you view yourself is the way life will show it to you through life circumstances. Look deep into the eye of your circumstances and you will see the patterns of life you have established within yourself. Many souls are being attracted by the thing that will help them to evolve.

When your soul becomes the spring season for other souls, they will all cling onto you for they know that they will emerge from the deep sleep by eating the nectar of your heart. The nectar of your heart will become the water that will irrigate the ground for the seed of love to grow. Then you can see how life is beautiful.

The Mystery of Character.

Written by Simon K. Sakpo

Character can be simply defines as the attitude of human being in face of the manifestation of life. Attitude comes from interpretation. Interpretation is born out of perception. And perception comes from knowledge. The kind of knowledge you have, is the kind of interpretation you will have. The nature of your attitude depends on the nature of how you interpret your perception.

Without knowledge, there is no perception and without perception, there is no interpretation which will be express as an attitude. The way you perceive life, is the way you express it. Before life can be expressed, it must first be perceived. Before you can perceive life, you must have certain knowledge of life. Without any knowledge of life, it will be impossible to have any perception of it. The knowledge you have of yourself is what you are manifesting.

 It is the knowledge that gives you the eye to perceive. So knowledge becomes the very element or the substance of your beliefs. Because beliefs are born after you believed in any kind of knowledge.  What you believe in within is what is express without through the three main doors such as: thought, word and action.

These three main doors constitute the channel through which you communicate with the universe.  When an idea comes into your mind and you believe it, you are already in communication with the universe before a word can be expressed or action can be made. An idea of thing will never manifest in your life if you do not have any similar belief of that idea within yourself. You have a total power to cast out or retain any idea that will come into your mind.  

Your attitude towards life’s circumstances is not a hazard. To determine the nature of your attitude in the enfoldment of life, check your own knowledge. As you know that knowledge gives birth to beliefs, this later becomes the commander of your life. This commander expresses itself through different attitude. Your behaviors, attitude in the face of life are only the expression of your beliefs.

When you have false knowledge, you will automatically have false beliefs and these false beliefs will be manifested as false or “bad character”.  Character in reality is human power of attraction. This power is in fact our ability to attract either good or bad into our life base on the nature of our knowledge. How this is possible?

Imagine that you are in need of a car that will help you have a better job. Your real intention behind a better job is to take very good care of your family. This noble intention will activate all divine laws to operate so that you may get the car. Take very good care of your family is translated into “have a car”. But your current situation doesn’t give you an option to buy a car. Then you pray for divine intervention in your situation.

The amazing thing is that anytime we call on divine intervention, He manifests Himself to help us. But we humans have the power through our will to either allow Him or not, to accomplish the reason of His presence. From that moment, our character becomes the doorway of divine manifestation. How?

Whatever happens in human life requires an active willingness of human before the thing can happens. Nothing happens randomly without the expression of our will. Many people express their will unconsciously.

Now, as a mother is ready at any given moment to feed her baby when he is hungry, God always responds to us. He is present in our life today and forever. He reveals Himself in most of the time as someone we already know or a total stranger to us. Why?

Because, if God can embody Himself as human being just to interact with us and to help us, we must be very, very careful the way we treat others. Or the kind of thought we withhold within ourselves against others. Jesus emphasized this by saying that what you do to the least, it was Him you did to. Read Matthew 25: 35-42.

 It is at the presence of others in most of the time, your character or behaviors play the crucial part of the game of life. Your characters or behaviors are like magnetic force that over shadows you. This magnetic force in and around you has a power to attract or repulse anything at any given moment.

Whatever you ask your God, will never falls from the sky to you. As I said earlier, God may use either someone you know or a total stranger to trigger the process for you to have the thing you are in need of. The key is your interaction with others consciously and unconsciously. All the negative emotions stored up within, will eventually emanate from you unconsciously.  It is this emanation that plays the game.

When hatred and anger are emanating from you, whoever comes to you may simply be reject by your behaviors; thus many have unknowingly reject God.  Even though divine intervention was at their hands, they unconsciously said no to Him. That why it is very, very important to check what we are storing up within ourselves.

When you blame others for your situation, you will also blame the person God is going to use to bless you to. Some are caught up in these negatives reactions to the point they are hurting themselves every time without knowing. They are angry, sad and cursing everyone including themselves. The goodness that will come to them to fulfill their need will be repulsed.

Our life is not fulfilled not because we are born to be like that; not because of generation curse and not even because we have no help from anybody. As the rain falls for everyone and the sun rises for all, as the divine intervention is for us. We as humans have the power to activate divine intervention in our lives or to deactivate. No need to curse anyone for your life circumstances.

Whatever is happening right now in your life is the tool you have to use to transcend the limitation so that you can emerge in the cosmic consciousness. Life that is flowing in you does not know failure. Life cannot fail. If life can fail, then the creator has failed. For we know that perfection, absolute good is the creator. And God never fails.

Whatever you may going through now can be fix. The problem humans have, is that they don’t like to uproot their problems. All they want is to cool down the pain. If for instance you are sick and the cause of your sickness is the presence of a certain virus in your stomach. This virus has to be removed.

The doctor you may consult has only one way to cure you definitively from this sickness. He has to perform a surgery to remove this virus from your stomach. But here you are telling the doctor to give you “Tylenol, Advil or ibuprofen” to cease your pain. What you may not know is that this virus can cause other problem in you. And your situation may end up be worst.

It is time to do personal check up of your emotions. Humans go to the doctor to do checkup of the physical body. What about the emotional body? Observe and see with no judgment what type of emotion is flowing out of you. Are you feeling angry, hatred? Do you have resentment?

Whatever may be the cause of all the negative emotions is not what is important. If your desire in this moment is to live with peace and joy, then that is the key for your new life. The first thing you should do is to forgive yourself, then forgive others.

Why it is important to forgive? Everyone act according to their knowledge. The knowledge you have comes from your understanding of life. If your understanding changed, automatically your knowledge will also change. To understand that you have the power to attract good or bad is good knowledge to use to change life circumstances.  This simple affirmation can help you to change things around: “I am a good person. I do only well to others. I only love and I attract only good in my life”.